Ok, so some new developments are afoot. Hope it's good news.
Anyway, on Tuesday of this week, EX and I were texting and she asked me a personal question. She said she hoped she wasn't being too nosy and I said no, you can ask me anything you like. If I don't want to answer, I'll decline to answer. She was cool with that and told me the same went for her. I said thanks but there isn't anything I feel I need to ask at the moment. A big breakthrough for me, not asking any personal questions. Later she said that she thought it was silly for us to walk around on eggshells for each other and I agreed. She said it was silly "especially now" and I asked her what that meant. She said just that emotions weren't so high any more and that time had passed. Not sure if she means that she's over me or what, but I don't think she'd still be texting me as much as she has if tha were the case.
Later we talked some more today and she told me about her plans for the weekend, a first in a long time. She's been responding to me pretty much immediately and has initiated texting as well. We have shared some things that are going on in our lives and such. She hasn't really asked me much so I haven't given her much info. Hopefully this continues for a while. We've even slightly flirted a bit.
The hard part is that now I want to text her all the time and talk to her. It's hard to refrain from talking as much as I'd like. I would think though that, even though she's been really positive towards me lately, I should still be mysterious and not respond all the time. Thoughts?