Try and understand you are not punishing her in this. If she chooses to interpret it as punishment it is she that is doing so.
In my own sitch an angry backlash is usually a manifestation of frustration over loss of control, and my, spouse, typically feels the brunt of what she manifests.
(((Val)))
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
