H seems upset me about telling him that I am planning on going out tonight. Here's an email exchange from this morning:
H: When were you going to tell me you were going out tonight? Not that I care in the least but when were you going to tell me? (ouch, not care "in the least") M: I was going to tell you last night. I wanted to before, but didn’t feel like there was a good time. H:What do you mean there wasn’t a good time. How hard is it to tell me? M:You’re right, it shouldn’t be hard. I just didn’t know what kind of mood you’d be in. (I should have left the second part out) H: Whatever. Not buying that.
H can come home at whatever time he wants to, goes out if he feels like it without telling me anything...and I don't ask. And now that I made plans to go out, I should feel bad about waiting until the night before to tell him? Who does he think he is? I even lined up MIL as backup sitter in case H made plans, but I didn't tell him. Don't want him to think that I was going behind his back and not consulting with him first. Well, I know what kind of mood he'll be in tonight. Good thing I won't have to be around him for too long.
