Why would you not be with your son anymore, CV? Surely, he would either go with you if you walk away, or you stay, and H leaves if you want a S and D?

I agree with Accuray, in that you should not deprive yourself of fun activities like skiing because your H doesn't want you to go. Don't let him control you. If he's jealous, then that's his problem, not yours. And, it would be a great activity to share with your son. And a great way to get out of the house, and exercise. I wish I can ski ... I'm a bunny hill skier. I tend to also stay at home for days on end, sometimes in my jammies all day. I'm trying to change that. Attending class is my GAL activity. I am studying toward a BA in Creative Writing, 'cause you can write wherever you are in the world.

Take care.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim