Hi, thanks for the reply, what keeps discouraging me about the other forum is they won't listen to what I say, they keep insisting it was PA when I have evidence in the form of text messages that it wasn't. The text show a running commentary of the whole friendship and it really does read as a normal friendship that got too close with disastrous consequences. I do think she was a little bit in love with him although she didn't say that to him and to be honest she probably doesn't realise herself as she is so far in denial.
However I'm concerned that living away (which was my choice-she didn't ask!) is now starting to do more harm than good, I moved out because I was so so angry that I was making the situation worse.
I'm concerned about how she's going to react when I tell her and my biggest concern is my jealousy, it is my Achilles heal and I keep seeing something out of nothing.
