Trusting, You have to remember that they have been wearing masks for a long time and lies will come easily for them. The hardest part is trying to wear two different masks, i.e., one for the general public and one when he is in your presence.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.