It's not up to you whether she comes back or not. It's her choice to come back or not, but try not to put your focus on that. Put your focus on bettering yourself as an individual and in relationships. On living the best life you can. You will succeed that way no matter her choice.
Busto thanks for coming back to share that.
Congratulations on the new development. Your post is spot on.
Most important I think is the fact that you figured out what wasn't working and stopped.
Let her alone.
Took yourself out of the equation.
Removed the bullseye from your back.
And lived your life like she wasn't coming back.
Then it was YOUR choice to make.
Good for you.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
