Originally Posted By: sayitaintso
LOL, but erhaps I'm not as sharp as some of the other peeps on here, same result from what?




Same result as in....

You will STILL get burned, you will still walk away wondering WTF happened, you will still wonder why....


Like I said.......PRETTY COLORS !!!!


Say,


You gotta get a grip on what is real. You are allowing yourself to get spun out, because you are still looking at her to answer your questions.


You still are asking questions that you don't want the answers to.

Every time you feel that you are getting closer, you take a temperature check to " see where she is"

News flash buddy....

It is NOT where she is....

That is why you spin out...




Standing for your marriage is a very admirable thing, as long as you view it as what it is...

YOUR choice....

To know, without a doubt, that YOU did every thing that you could possibly do....

And so far, you have done an admirable job. Except in ONE area....

What might that be ????

(hint...temperature ^^^^^)


Now....get up, dust off, and get back on the horse...