I think I will ignore it. We've never done gifts for V day, but usually went out to dinner. Last year we decided to save $$ by not doing fancy dinners for a while, so we might not have done much this year anyway. Plus, on of H's big emotional issues is having obligations and duties toward others. So needless to say, I don't think hinting around about V day would go over well. Definitely pursuing in my case.
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12