Hi, I've been thinking and looking at my situation and it's been 6 weeks since I moved out and while I've made a load of progress my W hasn't at all. It feels like we are just as distant if not slightly more. Been looking on the marriage builders forum and I get the feeling I need to be more pro active. I'm almost definetly going to move back home very soon as I don't think it has helped in my goal to save the marriage it has allowed some space to sort out my issues and cope with my anger better. The other thing I've been considering is exposing the EA to her family and work mates, she needs to face the consequences of her actions which is one reason I want to move back Home but I'm not sure if exposing is the right thing to do or not? Please let me know your opinions!