Try not to worry too much about your H's conversation with his sister. It can have a really negative effect or a really positive one. But either way, it's out of your control.
You are doing great and I am with you and 2tp... all this detachment seems to be coming in waves for me too - good and bad days. So I hope we can all learn to surf soon.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D