Its funny you say that because when we started I said something along the lines of I hope this doesn't get too dangerous.
I see the missed opportunity but I was reeling a little bit so I missed it.
Don't get what you mean about her testing me??
And now my mind is wondering if I need to state to her that it is fine if she wants to date or be with someone else as I have no control over what she does but if she sleeps or is intimate with another man than I don't believe I can continue a realtionship with her.
Or is that anti-db? I'm not sure if she knows this is a boundary with me but I also only want to R if she chooses to come back to me and decides to want to be with me and work on us.