I'm stressing over this significantly. I've already taken a poll and given my sitch specifically (always been over the top with the gifts given that is her love language) and the feedback I've received, my plan is to do nothing. But then we hung out on Sunday and she was talking about Valentines Day, potentially "fishing". Given the situation with the stepkids I am thinking I'm going to do a card for each of them, given that they didn't decide to eject me from their lives.
I've read in some people's sitch's that the feedback is to do something but not go over the type. Given I am in LRT mode although not doing well at it, my stance with her again is going to be to do nothing and just do a card for the stepkids.
Good luck to everyone!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
