I also feel that the need to express that were H to say he's willing to work on our M, I would drop my divorce suit in a heartbeat. I feel that at the time (after months of sitting and waiting for him to decide to follow thru with his threats and file for D) that my filing was right for me. However, I do not in any way, shape, or form "want" this to end in D. Also, since we are in the fun "Discovery" stage of the D proceedings, we've both received these horrendous packets of questions to fill out. As one of my 180s, I'm planning to "stop fighting the D" with him and instead going to suggest that we try working on the packets of paper together. Considering how opposed to any part of D I have been, I do feel that maybe not openly opposing it when I talk with him will have more of a positive impact on myself and on him.
