oh, and another thing. While you might be an "almost WAW", your sitch isn't a WAS/LBS situation, perhaps.

What you have is a volatile M in which no one has technically left the other. You are really here because you have a broke down marriage and you want to either make it better or survive or... make a more drastic choice.

The term Left Behind Spouse does presume there is a Walk Away Spouse. You might be neither. Your sitch is definitely "different" then many on this board, in that way.