Dinner with my W next week has been planned and is on. My saga is in another thread (new to DB-Help). I plan to go and just listen to her and not bring up R at all and see what happens. We sleep together but no romance at all for about a month. We are like roommates with kids for now, but talk about daily life and kid's, etc. No talk about R or EA/OM if I can help it and she never brings it up.

Any advice? Should I get a card/flowers. It's pursuing I know, but we do have a "date" set for Valentines.
Thanks!

M 43, W 40
T 22. M 14
D 14, S 9, S 8
DD 11/21/11
Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!