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[BklynMom]

I know H doesnt want to speak to counsellors but can you somehow make that happen in order to discuss these side effects without seeming like you are manipulating the sitch.

Google "broken home daily mail" there are some articles I would love to forward to our H about the negative consequences of D. I wish I could do that.

Our "MC" told my H kids are resilient, what a bunch of quacks.

I think you should tell some select people to show you are listening to your H. Also to show him that he cant hold this over your head. Trust me I do not like telling people. But I think you need to tell a hand full as part of your strategy.

Also when I told mutual friends this summer several of the men decided on their own to try to talk some sense into H, it was unsuccessful. I do think that as my H comes out of his fog he does remember some of the things people have said.

My H thought it was weird that a mutual male friend was "so angry" at him, H thought it was out of character. Makes me laugh

He likes to call you a single mom?? That is odd, why do you think he likes to say that??