OK, so I'm pretty sure we all agree and know how this ends, if nothing changes.
What would be one or two things that, for you, would make the M at least more tolerable, if not better. I really want no more than three things. But please take whatever time you need to think about this.
It might be something like, H puts the toilet seat down every time, or H starts cooking veggie meals for me, or H plays with S in a way that S wants and does not hurt S.
Two or three things...
I really am going to have to think about this. The problem is that the longer I remain in this state, the more comfortable it gets, and the harder it is for me to imagine anything else. And I've been in this state or some version of it for a l-o-n-g time.
While I'm thinking, I'd like to ask... can you tell me what difference does it make what the 3 things are? I can't change him anyway. And I can't relate it to DB'g at all.
