Thanks Grmpy. I appreciate the encouragement. This forumn has been a great resource for me. It's good to see that my journal entries are helpful to others as well.
If the DB techniques work, I'll be sending Champagne and candies to Michelle's offices for sure. Even if they don't work, I'll still be eternally greatful for the techniques I've learned from her, and will definitely use them in my future relationship should my current one not recover.
It is sometimes hard to believe that my wife is gone. Just six short months ago we were sleeping in the same bed, now I'm a batchelor again. A batchelor with a mortgage to pay on an empty house. Kind of ironic--but I'm learning a lot from this. I'm learning that I'm much stronger then I thought, and I'm capable of much more than I give myself credit for.
I've identified the real reasons why she left/stopped loving me, and I am going to steer clear of those things going forward, regardless of the outcome.
God bless you guys.
"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them." -Epictetus
