During one of my ex's emotional spews before he moved out I remember him screaming, "I will not be abandoned by you or anyone else anymore." His mother had left him at the age of 12 and moved out of state. I had been advancing in my career and taking care of the household duties and responsibilities due to his depression I truly feel he thought I was going to leave him, so he quick found bimbo.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11