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[WenikiTiki]

@BeingMe: Yes H drives...... And the Safeway is only a mile away! About OW, I have pondered calling her. I think she has my numbers blocked now. But she would still get a notification that I tried to call. Another friend of mine suggested telling her to just back off.

@Tested: I am trying different approaches. I did offer to make him a cake, I googled how to convert a yellow cake mix to a carrot cake. (I was being silly....... it was already 7 pm here in Hawaii.) Anyway, YES, he has been cake eating, but that behaviour has been stopped, for now.

@Angel: I do read many other peoples threads. I don't always comment on some current threads, because I don't have much to add. Many of the old threads I'm reading ARE very helpful. WCW's threads are speaking to a situation a lot like mine.

I like to keep everyone here entertained. So let me tell you all about my H, Farting, and how I know what he is thinking.

Several months ago I noticed that when my H farted he would sometimes say excuse me and sometimes not. I realized that when he plans to stay married to me he excuses himself. When he is planning on leaving me he doesn't. I seriously cannot make this stuff up.

So I have a darn near fool proof way to know how he is feeling about his life with me. Problem is now it makes me laugh. The old fart marriage commitment barometer...... If I question his thoughts, I just feed him beans and I don't even have to ask, just listen!

Okay, time to go do some work!

Thanks all for your posts!