Separation Helped So Far..

[anyhope]

Thats a good skill to have, I'd take that course but I'm sure we need no course when it comes to our husbands.
And while being friends would be nice he really gets his hopes up every time we talk, he thinks he's one step closer. As far as I'm concerned I'd rather be friends and see if down the road we feel we can move up from there but I hate pressure and every time I feel pressured I flat out tell him to back off. Other than that he is a good guy, amazing friend and I always told him when he didnt spend time with me or chose to be out with friends that I'm jealous of them and wish I was his friend as he'd spend more time with me then- and I still feel that way. The issues we'd have to work on go beyond ow anyhow and will not be resolved by sweeping them under the rug as we did for years because this is exactly where that leads to.. Growing apart and cheating..