Wen, Your posts made me laugh! Its true that MLC'ers are like big babies. A year ago, my H was acting like that too.... complaining about everything, whining, and being such a brat that even my then 12 year old said that she felt like she was the parent and not the child!

You know, the reason why people know what is going to happen next is that many have passed the same path as you have. That is one of the reasons that it is so good to read the threads of people. You learn second hand from them what works and what does not. Helps you make an informed guess. Of course there are many different personalities involved. You know what I did was I looked for threads of posters whose personalities resonated with me and my H's. And I looked at the sitches of those who had been able to go on to piecing, or saved their M's, and tried to follow their advice and example, even if it was HARD! Mainly I followed 25 and Cyrena (although Cyrena does not have a thread, her advice and description was always spot on). I am trying to remember who else ....


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go