Is it classic for them to behave the way they do, and then turn right around and act as if nothing ever happened?
Im really struggling with some anger issues here with xh. It infuriates me that he's done the things that he's done and then turns right around and acts like it didn't even happen!!! If anything has been brought up as to WHY he's behaved a certain way, well it's all my fault, I caused him to behave that way or some sort of victumization spin is put on it to inflict guilt.
He is behaving nicely to everyon else, appears happy as a clam since OW affair was brought out into the open, yet when a mood hits him he has no problem emailing me spew.
Im feeling very frustrated, angry, and well victumized myself. He's now over there doing activities with our kids, OW and inlaws that we were doing a year ago here in our home together as a married couple. He appears as this charismatic, sweet, and fun person. Yet he gets called on trying to not pay child support and I get spew as to why it's all my fault he's broke and I do nothing but say one thing and do the other. MENTAL ABUSE!!!
Im constantly questioning what's normal to feel, or if Im stupid for feeling hurt when he does this. I feel like Im the crazy one and stupid for having the feelings I do.
