I want to respond to the above posts, when I can get to my laptop.....
Thank you all for checking in with me and reminding me about MY work that needs to be done... Focus, focus.

I called the house this morning to talk to my kids before they leave for the day. It was rushed and S was distracted, so I didn't get to talk a lot about anything important frown it was nice to hear him say he misses me and loves me though smile

Since I'm gone, I only get to talk to them at breakfast time, or right before bed- both of which aren't ideal because S is either rushing to get dressed, or tired and not very talkative. I really miss getting him off the bus and listening to him ramble on about his day and what he learned at school.

I also miss seeing my baby smile at me and giving me hugs and kisses. H says he smiles when I talk to him on the phone, but dice my g-ma doesn't have wifi, we can't do FaceTime so I can see his sweet face. I worry (probably irrationally) that he thinks I've left him.

Question: OW has changed the baby's nap schedule to fit her routine. I don't know if this was discussed with H and he gave his approval- but it was only told to me as if H was telling me that he ate something new (very nonchalant.) It bothered me because when I left, he was taking 2 hour long naps during te day. Now, 4 days later, he is only taking 1 20 minite nap (an its at a time of day that will not work with my routine when I get back.) I mentioned that this seemed like a drastic change from where he was just 4 days ago, and H didn't seem to think anything was wrong: "well, he must just not need them anymore." i know that the baby was reaching an age where his nap routine would modify, but I'm having a hard time believing that he would change all of a sudden and so drastically as soon as I leave town.

Am I allowed to say anything to him? To her? Not at all?


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12