It's a good reality check for him to hear that you've had a problem (or an injury) an he can't be the 'knight in shining armor' to rescue/help you. It's good that you told him about the issue, but you didn't ask for his help to solve the problem. You can tell that he wanted to help by his repeated questions Btw, I'm really sorry that you got hurt, and I hope it all turns out ok.
It's nice that FIL wants to come see the kids- enjoy his visit, with no expectations. Although it might not hurt to have your answers ready in your mind I case he does bring up your sitch with H, just so you're not caught off guard.
You're doing great, even though you get sad sometimes.... You're able to snap out of it faster each time it happens.... Baby steps.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12