Thanks. I appreciate that you are still posting to me 25.
As for my GF, she knows the story from start to end. I've even let her read my posts. I have been very open and honest with her.
I received a nasty text from XW a few days ago (right out of the blue of course) that I didn't even respond to. She went on and on about how much money I should be giving S17 everyday for lunch since she is required to send me child support money blah blah blah.
It took a while, but I am finally starting to see what everyone has been drilling into my head. DETACHMENT DOES WORK. It doesn't even bother me as much anymore when I think about OM. It's whatever.
Like I've said, I do still have bad days, but they are much better than they were.
You are so right when you said this:
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Based on reality now, what's to miss?
Amen!
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13