Thanks. I appreciate that you are still posting to me 25.

As for my GF, she knows the story from start to end. I've even let her read my posts. I have been very open and honest with her.

I received a nasty text from XW a few days ago (right out of the blue of course) that I didn't even respond to. She went on and on about how much money I should be giving S17 everyday for lunch since she is required to send me child support money blah blah blah.

It took a while, but I am finally starting to see what everyone has been drilling into my head. DETACHMENT DOES WORK. It doesn't even bother me as much anymore when I think about OM. It's whatever.

Like I've said, I do still have bad days, but they are much better than they were.

You are so right when you said this:

Quote:
Based on reality now, what's to miss?


Amen!

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13