Yeah... I started typing a response this afternoon and then deleted it. I don't know if I believe she's sincere. And if she is it changes nothing. It does reflect the interactions we've had of late... I think she remains surprised that I am as supportive of the move as I am. And while I really am not supportive of it, there isn't another option really. I could be mopey, sad, angry guy... but that's no fun for anyone including me and especially for the kids. I don't want the kids to fear or feel bad about the move and I can constantly see my S looking to me for cues on how to handle this whole thing. So hold my head up high and keep moving on.
There are fun moments though too... I told W to take the family computer with her. It's old and slow, but certainly good enough for the demands of elementary and middle school research and email. But now I need a desktop for home... so it meant time to go computer shopping. I'm pretty excited waiting for my new Dell beast of a machine to arrive in a couple days. And once the W is out I'm going to redo the game room into the arrangement I've always wanted. So there are some ups in all this.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD