Originally Posted By: Starsky309
If you've decided that where you are on the male-female continuum has skewed too far female, than you should be seeking some "100% male" behaviors and activities that push you more to the man side of the equation, yes?

If your wife were posting here, where on that continuum do you think she'd like CL to be ideally? Where were you on it when you two met, and she became attracted to you?

Starsky


I think I was too far feminine when we both met, and have been too feminine for the entire marriage. Who gets to determine the mix? It seems I should create the mix I'll be happy with. I don't like her ratio. I do need more on the masculine side, regardless of whose ratio we're looking at.

CL


CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching