I am letting her go. I am not using this to try to get her back. I am using this because whether I like it or not she will be in my life for at least 18 yrs. as we have a daughter together. That means that I still will have to deal with her decisions when it affects me.
The book is to help me with the times that I have to have contact with her and she is spewing or trying to punish me, make me feel guilty, or any other kind of button pushing.
I am using this book to work on myself and cultivate more patience with others in general, including those that may bring a great amount of stress into my life.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12