I want to be able to talk to my partner about anything. For instance, if we have an issue with s*x, then we should be able to talk about it, not ignore the problem. I don't want to be controlled, but be a full partner in the R. I want to be able to snuggle when I want (or, he wants) or not, and not have it be a bit issue if I don't want to.
I want my partner to be interested in me and the things I do, as I am with him and what interests him. I just want to matter.
Has there been a time recently where you have got any of those things from him, even just a bit, even for a few minutes? If so, what was happening? How was it different than other times? How did you make that happen?
