Say we got your back. Yes I think the ups and downs and the questionings are normlal. I am at a stage where what matters most is me. Not fully there yet. But been thinking that if I fell in love again how would I be different? Will she accept my old behaviors? Will I accept her unconditionally? Just full of questions but they do not need to be answered now. I am still trying to wrap my brain around the being happy is a do it yourself job. So the more you post the clear er things will become. Even if they sound trivial to you,


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden