Kolja- I don't think it is ever too late. Even if our WAS leave and we get a D we can still DB and it has resulted in R in some instances I've read in the archives.

It's been said many times on here by some vets that we will know when it is time. Until then it doesn't matter what our WAS do, it only takes 1 to change the relationship dynamic.


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley