I'm 55 and have been married for 33 years, together 36 and I don't consider myself finished! But it is a daunting prospect at times.
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I'll read the rest of your sitch now.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss