nh, I started wearing different clothes to bed recently. Nothing overtly sexy, but things that did make me feel sexy. I needed that for my self esteem at that moment.

Same here! Every morning he comes over I'm still wearing a cute/sexy pj dress. He doesn't say anything but at least I feel more attractive.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017