He came over this morning to help me with the kids. This is now a daily morning routine. I always say thank you n have a good day. He'll say you too and to call him later. I never/seldom do. He always calls.
Today S3 had his routine hematology appt. Since DD I told him he needs to go to S3 drs visits, which are now once a month. He's been good about it. He even said he now knows what I had to go thru when S3 was smaller. Since S3 was having something at school tomorrow I said, I need you to help me at the appt w D6mos when they draw S3 blood but I know S3 would love it if you went to his school tomorrow.
About an hr later he called and said he would meet us at the drs clinic. I called back n said thank you. (later he told me he was going to cancel -work related- but because I said thank you he didn't
At the clinic we were good, relaxed, laughing at our kids do funny things. I said, don't worry. I won't bring up anything heavy. He said you never mean to but you do. I laughed n said, true.
I asked him to watch the kids next Sat morning n he said, why? U got a hot date? I said, wouldn't you like to know. I didn't tell him but I'm going to the spa w friends. I also asked him to watch the kids on tonite. I said I'm going out w Sandra. Did t tell him we're going to her church. AND. I asked him to also watch the kids next Tuesday. He said ok. I don't have plans. It like HELL. I'm staying home on Valentines.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
