feeling like giving up.....former DBing against OW

[mishka422]

ITM, I have to go against VC here.

Your son already knew something was going on, trust me, or he wouldn't have felt the need to eavesdrop. Do NOT tell your H that S overheard you on the phone. That will anger him to know that you are putting his dirty laundry out to air. I would tell him though that S is suspicious and wants to know the truth and it is not your job to tell him. Tell him he deserves the WHOLE truth from his dad and if he doesn't give it to him in a relatively short amount of time then he can expect S to find a way to get to the bottom of it.

Don't threaten him with telling S yourself. Again, that will anger him further. You know how most men get when their back is up against the wall....they come out swinging. Don't do that to yourself or S.

VC - So sorry to hear about your area. I'm just one state over and see the destruction on the news often. I've driven back and forth to Birmingham quite often and drive through several of the communities that were hit. Glad you are ok and your home wasn't destroyed. DARN TORNADOES!