I guess my thought is: Is it putting you out by doing it? What would YOU like to do?
More than likely H is gonna find something else to be crying about so do it if you feel like it.
My W used to do the same thing with our cable, internet, basically everything.
The mistake I made was calling her on her babyish behavior. It was so infuriating!!!
The one thing I can tell you is not to step on eggshells like I felt I had to. It just led me to being put in no win situations and really blasting out the resentment when we would argue.
Just my 2 cents
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12