Btw, in our phone discussion last night she told me her best friend, who just got married, is wanting to have a child soon (she's in her thirties). We talked about whether it's good to have children soon after marrying. I asked her how long she waited to have her daughter and she told me that she had her daughter out of wedlock. She waited four years to marry her husband, she didn't feel that having a child was a good reason to get married and her parents did not like him. After four years she decided to marry him..."the worst decision of my life!" she said. I said "we all make decisions based on the knowledge we have at the time, some work out well and others don't but I guess that's called life, isn't it"
