Hmmm so 24 hours after restarting going dark, she randomly hits me up, when I asked what's up she says just wanted to "say hey". We chatted for a bit no R or M talk at all, and I exited the converstation saying I was heading to they gym and it was nice talking to her. I think the meeting on Sunday payed some dividends.
I am not exactly playing "by the rules" here but I am happy today. If she wants to talk again she will certainly be initiating :-).
Good Luck to everyone!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!