Just a thought: Perhaps my wife's recent behavior (see previous post) is due to something we read/see a lot in here - that is, that the WAS:

(a) uses negativity (or tests) when they sense positive changes in us (i.e. GALs/LRTs/180s) or,

(b) simple wants to deny their guilt by dumping it on the person they despise (i.e. us).

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112