Originally Posted By: MissingMyFamily
Seriously, when is this fool gonna wake up???




This is the question all of us LBS ask ourselves. Most all of them do at some point but hopefully for them it won't be too late. [/quote]

This begs the question of what's "too late." Do we, the left behind spouses, decide "too late" - is it simply when we decide to close (or at least not maintain) the road home? Or is there some say on THEIR side - at some point they 'wake up' but decide all on their own that 'well, it's been too long, too much has happened, I couldn't possibly go back...'


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12