This is the question all of us LBS ask ourselves. Most all of them do at some point but hopefully for them it won't be too late. [/quote]
This begs the question of what's "too late." Do we, the left behind spouses, decide "too late" - is it simply when we decide to close (or at least not maintain) the road home? Or is there some say on THEIR side - at some point they 'wake up' but decide all on their own that 'well, it's been too long, too much has happened, I couldn't possibly go back...'
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12