Separation Helped So Far..

[anyhope]

Hello All! Yes VC is right h was never married before me. He seems to be stuck in that place where he doesnt have me, doesnt really have ow though they still live together. First of Feb came and went and I'm guessing ow was still 'unable' to find a place to move to. He was telling me about some issues of mice in the house and being scared to death of mice I said to him I'm glad I dont live there as I'd die in fear and I asked if ow is scared of mice. H said she hardly stays there anymore but when she does she is closer to them (the mice) as she sleeps on the couch. Now... this may or may not be true. Only them and God knows what they do behind closed doors, not like I'll go check and not like I care anymore.

I did recently pass another course in school and only one to go that I need to focus on so very happy that I've been able to 'remove' myself from all the drama.

Just last night h got his 60 days notice to terminate the house he lives in so I'm guessing ow will go on with her life after they move.

H still calls me daily wanting to chit-chat and when he does I usually tell him good bye, he gets offended, but I dont really care. I can tell that in his mind all interactions we have are 'work' on our relationship. Needless to say, we dont talk about anything meaningful. He is hoping that we'd just 'be' again. He has not touched the His Needs Her Needs book I got him for Christmas, I'm guessing he doesnt feel he needs to. Still thrown in the back of his car as he left it after leaving here on Christmas Eve.

At the same time he was here the other day and i got a glimpse of his phone screen where the texts are and ow was the last person sending him a text.

He was over the other day dropping off the dog and she called while he was here. I couldnt hear what he said to her as he tried to whisper almost.

A few days prior to that he was over and jumped up looking at the clock telling me he has to make it to the liqueur store before it closes because he has to buy wine. I asked if he was going somewhere, he said he wasnt he just wanted to drink alone because he hasnt had a drink in a week. Now this alone sounds fishy, while h likes to drink in a social setting he doesnt drink alone, so I'm guessing he planned on drinking with her but didnt want to tell me.

Anyways thats it in a nutshell. Oh.. Sunday will be our 7th wedding anniversary. I won't call him and he will think its on the 14th on Valentines Day because thats what he always thinks.. We'll see if he calls me..