Hi Cadet,

1. Yes
2. Mine
3. This would be driven by her, when presenting ideas to me, which she is still doing, though quite a bit less. So this goal defines how I respond.

Agreed about the pursuing stuff. I am currently avoiding this as best I can, and think I'm being pretty successful.

I'm a bit confused by your comment on working on goals later on. Chapter 3 is all about goal setting with bold text saying don't skip this step. What I wrote above is the results of the exercises in Chapter 3. Since I don't have Michele to critique them based upon her book, I figured those here on the forum would.