Did I let him off the hook too easy. He is okay with his daughter crying for 15 minutes?? Should I have said D1 started crying for Daddy too?? Should I have said this is not okay??
Stuff with the kids is tough. You told him she was fine, yes you let him off the hook. His relationship with his kids is his issue to deal with. Would it have been better if you said: "D's whole world has been turned upside down, of course she's upset. She needs to be able to express her feelings about this and at 3 she has very few ways of doing that."
He certainly invalidated her feelings.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
