I love my husband very much and I want to save our marriage. He has moved out this week and it's killing me.
Please help me!
You must start first by helping yourself. Your husband has departed on his own journey right now. You must start on yours.
Worry first about BASICS, sleeping, eating, excercizing living your life to the fullest.
It is not uncommon to become depressed yourself and that will not help you to restore your marriage. You need a clear mind and healthy body to move forward.
You must stop worrying about him and use the TIME that he has given you to start to make a better WOV.
TBH it sounds like his MLC started during his previous marriage and your marriage did not cure it.
You must LET him GO and get on living your life to the fullest. If it was meant to be then he will come back, but if not then he was never yours to begin with.
I am sorry to tell you all this but it is what I read in what you have written.
I found a lot of comfort by reading the MLC resources. You are not alone and many of us have gone through this before you.
Tell us some more about your self, how old you are and your husband. What happened in the two previous marriages(yours and your husbands), you have lessons to learn here and that might be the most important thing that you can DO.
