All very very positive signs. Definitely buy some nice sleep wear.

"We are the best family ever" This is working. Stick with the program. He wants to be with you, he wants to be a family. He needs time to trust that the changes are real but he is moving closer.

Also you wrote the other day about getting a dog. From my experience our cats were the first thing my H freaked out about. After his ILYBNILWY speech he could not stand our 2 cats. If they tried to sit on his lap, he would throw the cat half way across the room. They used to be his best little buddies but once he was angry he took it all out on them.

You are doing great! Show him the new NHmom everyday!


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13