So last night a few hours after my D3 melt down and "I want my Daddy" rant. I text my H regarding a financial thing that we had been going back and forth with earlier in the day.

He texts me back - one quick sentence regarding the $ then
"D3 had tough time tonight. Hope she calmed down soon after I left. i still havent"

I couldnt believe it, my H actually expressed emotions to me. I write
"I know its tough for you. D3 is fine. She cried for 15 minutes then went to sleep. She loved all the stuffed animals on her bed"

I was so impressed with my very DB response until I get his answer

"Thanks Bklyn, that helps so much"

Did I let him off the hook too easy. He is okay with his daughter crying for 15 minutes?? Should I have said D1 started crying for Daddy too?? Should I have said this is not okay??


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13