After he dropped the bomb on me, he also let me know that he was feeling as if God was leading him down a different road away from me. He now tells me later that at that time, he was hoarding everything he could into his corner, to justify walking away from the marriage. My H was also involved in an EA with a co worker.
This was practically the beginning of my sitch, as well. I'm glad that he was able to come through the fog for you. Hopefully, we'll have similar breakthroughs.
Me: 31 W: 28 M: almost 6 T: 10.5 S2 Bomb#1: 05/11 Bomb#2: 11/11 S'd: 11/28/11 Moved back in: 12/28/11 MC: 06/28/12