Why has she turned her back on God? How do you know she has? Is God only found in church? Maybe she's actually closer to god and doesn't need a church as a go between.
hmmmm. She may not have turned her back to GOD so to speak but she no longer goes to church to hear the lords word. You don't go from Sunday school teacher to totally not going overnight. I know why she is not going GUILT! She knows if she went and heard the messages it would eat at her cause she knows darn well this is unacceptable in the eyes of GOD.
I realize she made up her mind 9 months ago that it will never work etc. Blah, Blah, Blah, 17 years what do you get? Not even a chance that's what. No she admitts she never told me how she felt. Was there a sign maybe but I'm also not a mind reader if that were the case I wouldn't be here right now.
I have accepted where we are she's been having her cake and eating it too. Well that stops now. We will be friends if things don't work out of course we will. (But right now she doesn't need to know that) it's time for some tuff love so to speak. I have never been an azz to her in the past so I won't be one to her now either. It's time for me to think of me GAL having some fun and if she wants to join in at some point great if not well her loss.
